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Gras im Wind
Charlotte Lill Psychological Counselling and Family Council Training

About me

I grew up on a farm in the Lower Rhine region — an agricultural holding I now manage myself, with a particular interest in sustainable land stewardship and nature conservation. I am married and a mother. After completing my teaching studies in Münster, I spent six months working in a Christian social project in São Paulo, Brazil — an experience that shaped both my understanding of resilience and my respect for the particular difficulties of navigating life far from home. I completed my teaching practice at a demanding school in Solingen, and later spent some weeks supporting the leadership of Fazenda da Esperança, a residential community for people recovering from addiction.

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I then worked for several years as a classroom and subject teacher at various primary schools while completing part-time advanced training as an Individual Psychological Counsellor and Supervisor (DGIP) at the Alfred Adler Institute North in Delmenhorst. After my parental leave, I resumed my work in this field and have been further developing my expertise ever since.

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My roots in agriculture and my encounters with people across very different walks of life have shaped the way I work. I have come to understand growth and change as natural processes — in the land, and in people. My practice is also guided by Christian values: respect for creation, a sense of responsibility, and genuine care for others. Against this background, and in light of my own personal development, I have deliberately chosen to pursue my professional path in Individual Psychology, Family Council facilitation, and Encouraging.

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​"Those who look at nature see not only what is, but also what can become."
 

— unknown

Background & Further Experience

  • Medical environment: I train medical and nursing teams in the use of medical devices at fasciotens and support collaboration between the professionals involved. Increasingly, this work also takes me into international settings.

  • Career orientation and professional reintegration: Supporting people through career transitions and returns to work, drawing in other institutions and networks where helpful. 

  • Parish and community work: Working within a church community in pastoral and counselling roles with adults and children, in collaboration with a psychological and neurological practice and other supporting organizations. Activities included general life counselling, practical support, and bereavement accompaniment. I also led the working group developing the parish's safeguarding and sexual abuse prevention framework.

  • Elementary school teacher: I was both a homeroom teacher and a subject teacher. During this time, I also participated in continuing education courses, particularly in communication, conflict resolution and prevention, and drama. I also began my training as an individual psychological counsellor and supervisor, which I completed during my parental leave.

  • Social projects: I participated in a Christian social project in Brazil for six months and completed a two-month internship in Germany at a Christian social institution for addicts, the Fazenda da Esperança.

Professional qualifications

  • Training as Encouraging Trainer – Schoenaker Concept, certified by Schoenaker Concept – Encouraging Training and Education, until 11/2026

  • Advanced training as Family Meeting Facilitator (according to Rudolf Dreikurs), certified by the Association for Practiced Individual Psychology e.V. (VpIP), 2025–2026

  • Advanced training as Individual Psychological Counsellor/Supervisor according to the guidelines of the German Society for Individual Psychology (DGIP), certified by the Alfred Adler Institute North e.V., 2013–2017

  • Second State Examination for Primary School Teaching, 2008–2010, with several years of professional experience

  • Studies and First State Examination for Primary School Teaching, University of Münster, 2002–2006

Specific training courses

  • Fundamentals of Trauma Education, Center for Trauma Education Welle gGmbH, 2025

  • Logosynthesis® Basic, Ulrike Scheuermann, 2024

  • Self-perception and the basics of motivational interviewing , Hannah Böhmer, 2024

  • Scenic work in connection with the principles and strategies of Provocative Therapy (PT), Provocative SystemWork (ProSA)®, Provocative Coaching (ProCo)® and Provocative Style (ProSt)®, German Institute for Provocative Therapy, 2024

  • ProSA I, Provocative SystemWork (ProSA)®, Fundamentals and Strategies of PT, ProSA®, ProCo® and ProSt®, German Institute for Provocative Therapy, 2024

  • Improtoolbox, Impro techniques related to the principles and strategies of PT, ProSA®, ProCo® and ProSt®, German Institute for Provocative Therapy, 2023

  • "Please don't say anything now!" Observations on shame and humor and their significance for counseling, therapy, and supervision, IF Weinheim, 2023

  • Conflict Management and Complaint Management, Hannah Böhmer, 2023

  • Symposium of the Berlin Network for Psychosis Therapy, Psychotherapy for People with Psychotic Illnesses: Psychodynamic Procedures Trauma and Psychosis, 2022

  • Psychosis and Violence, German Society for Individual Psychology, 2021

  • Meeting Point Methods - online "Supporting Change Processes", LEB, 2021

  • Communication training with Neurolinguistic Programming , VHS Cologne, 2019

  • Advanced training by the Archdiocese of Cologne for prevention specialists in parishes, 2018

Memberships & Cooperations

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